25 Agustus 2008

Mother as My Role Model

A person’s motivation or even his personality will be influenced by some factors such as parents, environment includes friend. I am a boy who still tries to find my identity as a human life. My life has been changed from time to time since I was child up to now. Mother, my beloved person has given a lot changing on me. What I do, what I learn can’t be separated with my mother’s influence. Looking more, I find some similarities between my mother and I although actually I am not totally her. I try to learn something good from her. It does not mean that I do not want to be my self, but I just want to learn and wrap it with my own style and feature in order to get a better life.

Mother really gives me a lot influences, started from little things, such as love, peace, and attention. My growth as a teenager right now is influenced by mother’s love. I can study till over, express my creation freely, and intermingle to other people and environment. Mother’s love is very deep. It may bring peace. She teaches me how to love others in our society. So, let us love with all our heart till the day is come and peace is won.

Mother plays an essential role in shaping characteristics of their children in solving problem. Problem needs solution. My mother, little or more has given me the way on how to solve some problems well. Fortunately, my mother is wise and clever. Actually, I can solve it by myself, but perfectionism on my mind sometimes make me forget who I am. On that occasion, of course problem will not be solved well. Being confused to find a better solution, I ask my mother and she really takes a part. She gives me many suggestions, which never have been thought before. I believe that my mother has learned more than me. She had ever been a teenager, while I have not been an adult yet.

Many people say that women can be indicated as a weak and fully feeling person in doing their responsibilities, but neither does my mother. She is strong and affords to bring a commitment. I’m really proud of her. She has taught me not to leave a responsibility although actually, it is really difficult. It is better to get a body-tired than mind-forced. I will always remember on what she said about being responsible and the importance of a commitment. That will be a soul in my life now and later. Besides, she teaches me to be my environment in this life. It means that anywhere we live, we have to adapt and obey the rule, both written and convention rule. Moreover, my mother plays an important position in the environment. She is believable. She has ever said that belief of other people that is given to us should be done properly. It will not come twice. When we can do it properly, it means that we have made an achievement and that is an own satisfaction.

That is some reasons why I choose my mother as my role model. Actually, every person has an ability to face this life with his or her own mind, but we have to remember that no bodies perfect in this world. A person should learn from other people who are fully experienced in order to be a better person. We will be ready for the challenge in front of us. We will get a better result when we try to learn from our role model.

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